It was a wet Thursday, just like any other day since this past month plus. I was driving with my mom as company on our way back from Cyberjaya to Kajang. Out from Cyberjaya, I stopped at a Shell station because it was so cold that I needed to use the ladies and mom bought some drinks and snacks. After that, we hopped back on to our car and I drove at only 70 – 80 km/h because whenever my mom is in the car with me, she just can’t stop nagging about driving “safely” and “slowing down”. I wouldn’t dream to drive at my usual 130 km/h on the highway whenever she’s around. I’d be lucky if I can push to 90km/h without her noticing.
Then, at 3.15pm on KM 27.6 of the SKVE, somewhere opposite Uniten area, a white BMW from Kampung Dato’ Abu Bakar Baginda took the bend off Jalan Ayer Hitam to join the SKVE (the road I was on) and lost control of his car. His BMW swerved out of his lane, spinned twice and came left-side first towards me who was driving on the 2nd lane of the SKVE.
What went through my mind five seconds before the accident?
When I saw the BMW careening at a weird angle out of the bend, the first thing I did was call out for my mom to make her alert of the situation. I braked once, looked to my right and saw the driver behind me (whom also saw the BMW) had shifted to the right lane and trying to speed up right next to me which disabled me to shift to the right lane to save myself. On my left, next to my rear door was a motorbike (2 person) and there’s another motorbike behind my car. Technically, I was sandwiched. I couldn’t change to the left lane and end up killing those 2 people on the motorbike. So I just pressed the brake fully and didn’t lift my leg off. I held the steering fast and said God’s name.
BAM!
Two things contributed to the accident :
- If the road wasn’t so slippery, my car might have stopped quicker than it did.
- If the wife of the BMW driver did not pull their car’s handbrake, the car’s ABS might allow the tyres of their car to roll a little (after the husband hit his brakes hard) instead of locking their car’s tyres and moving the car fast (like in a drift race) towards me.
The airbags burst in our faces and hit our chest pretty hard. My car was suddenly filled with smoke. I looked at the rear-view mirror to check if there are any incoming cars from behind but since my mom was already screaming and jumping out of the car, I quickly took off my seat belt, opened the locked door and got out. I fear my mom would blindly jump out to the road and kill herself or something. Other fast driven cars nearly hit us too but luckily the smoke coming out of my car made them brake in time. The BMW was situated horizontally on both the right and 2nd lane.
I quickly leaned on the divider and tried to breathe. My face and my arms felt like it was on fire. It was hard to breathe, either because my chest hurts from the impact or because of the smoke I inhaled in the car. Both my knees pulsated hard.
Azri, the driver who overtook me at the last second came straight to me to apologize. He said he saw the BMW coming and because he wanted to avoid hitting me, he had to speed up at the right lane. I told him I saw he changed lanes and because of that I couldn’t go to the right lane or I might hit him. He apologized so many times, it’s as if he was the one who hit me instead. The 2 motorbikers fell from their motorbikes and skinned their elbows and legs when they tried to avoid my car. They too thanked me for not going to the left lane because they know they’d be flying and probably be dead if I had.
The BMW driver did not apologize. His wife did. He didn’t.
When we were at the Kampung Dato’ Abu Bakar Baginda police station, the BMW driver said in his report that I hit his car. As if! Who told him to pull some drift racing trick on his car on a wet road anyway? His car was the one that drifted from the most-left lane (joining road next to the 4th lane) towards me, who was on the 2nd lane.
To the bloody “Lans Koperal” woman who took his report, if you don’t understand English, please don’t interrupt other people’s conversation.
I’ll write about this in another post.
I was glad the Sergeant did not waste my time. He said from our reports, it is obvious that the BMW driver was in the wrong. The BMW came from another road, took the bend to join a different road and then stopped in the middle of that road in an awkward angle. Because of the obstruction, he had caused the accident. So the BMW driver was fined. Hah! Served him right for not apologizing.
The fixing of my car will be claimed through his insurance company. And since my car is less than 5-years old, everything will be replaced with brand new parts. We took the third-party insurance claim. I need my car ASAP so we settled for this option.
After that my mom and I went to the hospital for X-rays and mom did CT Scan too coz she had whiplash. Luckily the results were fine. We had painkillers jabbed in our butts because if not, the pain will be doubled in few hours time. Right now, I am still feeling pretty awful. My chest still hurts, my knees are bruised and my trapezius muscle (near shoulder) is hard like stone.
This is not an ideal way to end the year.
However, I am quite surprised at how calm I handled the situation. I was steady on the wheels, I was able to think of options to avoid the accident, I also managed to collect myself quickly enough and took pictures of everything. I never imagined I would be in this type of situation but I also never imagined being that brave.
So guys, if you drive, please be smart and alert at all times.
- Just because you drive a big car (i.e. BMW, Mercedes, etc) does not mean the car is skid-proof. Do not drive fast on wet roads. Do not endanger other drivers who are driving under the speed limit.
- Make sure you educate your wives/husbands/co-pilots to NOT pull the handbrakes when your car skid on wet road. If your car have ABS, it’ll do the work for you. If you car don’t have ABS, let your brake go for a second when you skid (because the tyres are locked) so that the tyres can roll and you can control your steering wheel before you brake again.
- Don’t panic. If you lose control of your car, don’t panic. Do as I said in #2. If you see a car coming towards you, don’t panic. Quickly check your right and left side mirror and choose which side to go to avoid the incoming car. Think fast and react. Don’t freeze.
On this festive (and rainy) season, be safe. We want to share the season with laughter, not tears. Take care everyone.
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Sorry to hear that you had a car accident. Good that you are not severly hurt. Pity you has this bad luck, I hope it doesn't completely spoils your Christmas.
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Filip
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Hi Filip.
Yeah, it pretty much sucks that I can't enjoy the holidays.. I hope this will be the last string of bad lucks for me and 2012 will bring me much better things.. For now, I just have to rest and recuperate..
Merry Christmas to you
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nasib baik selamat…
nasib baik nyawa selamat..
Alhamdulillah syukur..
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Ya Allah… quite bad yeah… Alhamdulillah nothing serious except for the chest pain and bruises. Take good rest yea
Yes, Alhamdulillah syukur it wasn't worse than this.. Lucky there weren't other cars behind us or memang it would be worst.. We might've died..
Memang syukur kepada Allah s.w.t. Now time to rest and recuperate.. Hope will be better when the New Year rolls in
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OMG Bella.. ngeri nya I read your post.. I concur with Azuan.. alhamdullilah.. you and your mom are alright and no one got seriously hurt in the process.. i can't imagine if you had swerved to your left.. that motorcyclist sure dot dot dot
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Takper.. everything happens for a reason ya… have faith in that… hugs!
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Yes, I believe there's a reason for this.. The doctor asked me usually I drive laju ke and I said yeah on highway memang I usually laju, but because my mom was around, tu yang I drove slowly.. So the doc was like, "If you drive like you usually do, maybe you could've missed the accident by few seconds or few minutes.."
But then, my Mom said, maybe I could've missed but somebody else might be in worst condition – someone could've died (maybe the motorcyclist or the other car driver) because maybe the driver is not as calm and prepared as me.. So, when think it that way, I can't say anything la kan.. Maybe ada hikmah in all this..
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Yeah LJ.. Luckily it wasn't worse than it already is.. I cuma risau for my mom now.. She still complains of chest pains.. Dia dah lah batuk2 now and she has asthma so in addition to the chest pain, dia susah nak breathe.. My dad is monitoring her, if it gets worse then she'll have to go back to the hospital..
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Hi Bella!
Phew… scary n dangerous la some people drive. I'm very fearful of super fast cars and big monsters aka lorries, supertankers. Dah la huge, bawak laju2 lagi especially highway to the airport. They're such big bullies n even if you drive on the slower lane, lagi dia kasi flash the lights. Expect ppl to drive masuk longkang ke?? Ish. Anyway, so thankful you and your mom are safe. I hope your mom gets better soon.
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Hi Nessa!
Yes la, some people they think they F1 drivers maybe.. Drive like the road belong to their father. And then don't want to mengaku salah or even apologize when there's an accident… Some people need their egos to be squished. And true, lorries are usually bullies and don't think of other people's safety tau.. Some selamba only drive their lorry laju2 but brake macam tak makan.. Dah la got screeching sound, then so close to people car they stop.. *shiver*
Yes, grateful mom is safe but she still have chest pains and it gets worse when the asthma attacks.. Pray her chest pain will go off very soon.. She's usually more active than me but this accident really set her back physically la..
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Thank God you and your mom were alright!
That is such a scary experience. Good thing you remained calm.
And yeah, maybe ada hikmah behind this accident.
Hope your mom is fine. Take care.
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Yes, Alhamdulillah everything is OK Lina.. Luckily it wasn't so bad..
I was surprised that I am actually calm in this situation.. I know though, if I freaked out when the accident was going to happen, I could endanger so many other lives, probably kill someone even. So, I am very grateful it didn't go to that extent. Insya'Allah, semoga ada benda positive that comes out from all this..
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That is scaryyy!! Hope u're coping well, jaga ur mom elok-elok
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Hi dearie..
Yes, I'm getting better.. Pray that my mom will get better too.. Need to start the New Year in a brand new state.. :p Insya'Allah, will take care of my mom as best I could..
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hope you felling better doll…. have a good rest….
Thanks sweetie.. I am feeling better now.. Bruises are a dark purplish-yellow hue though. Not my favourite color combination.. LOL!
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Ya Allah, Bella! Lucky you and your mom are safe!! Glad it was not a fatal one. And how dare the driver said you hit him! Crazy man trying to show off!!
Alhamdulillah Kak Emi.. I am grateful it wasn't fatal, nobody died. My mom kept telling everybody how calm and controlled I was in the situation. She said if she was driving, highly likely she would swerve to the left and then those two motorbikers would've died now..
Maybe there's a reason for this to happen.. We just have to have faith in that.. 
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Oh and yes, show off BMW driver.. Dah la tak minta maaf pun.. The wife je yang say sorry, that's not right..
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B):o
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Hey sweetie, wah OMG! That was a scary close call and thank goodness you and your mom are okay! Alhamdulillah cause it looks like a pretty bad accident. good to know the guilty party was appropriately fined and yes, I too am impressed with your cool, calm collected composure.. if it was me, sure dah panic and shocked! Big hugs and get well soon okay? <3<3
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Hi dearie..
Yeah, I was the only one in the family that never got into an accident before. So now it's sort of a "joke" that everybody in the family dah "merasa" accident. :p I know it's not a funny thing when I got hit but all this is lessons to life la kan.. Even though it's not my fault but I sure learned something from this. What I believe is that at times of impending doom, don't panic and waste time. Must react fast and smart..
Thanks sweetie, I hope will recover soon.. Pray my mom won't get worse too.. *hugs*
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Of course, speedy recovery for your mom also, hugs!
Wow, good thing you made it out alive and in once piece.
One other advice I might add: don't get out of your car right away as you might get hit by other cars who don't stop quickly enough
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Hi Nate.. Thanks for dropping by..
Yes, I am and will always be grateful that I managed to live to tell this tale..
Yeah, right after the impact, I was checking the rearview mirror to see if there are any incoming cars and luckily the ones that are was at a distance and they saw the accident so they slowed down. I was more worried of my mom at the time because she was panicking and trying quickly to get out of the car. I was afraid if she would just jump on the road without thinking or something.. However, everything went well and I am forever grateful for that..
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omg that's horrible!! im certainly glad that no innocent ppl were killed! and sorry that u and ur mom are having to go through this…hugsy sweetie!!
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Thanks sweetie.. Yes, this has been a lesson to me.. And sadly, I am not holding the accident-free record in my family anymore..
I'm sure glad nobody was killed.. Hope people would also learn to be more careful on the road and not take things for granted..
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Wow i am so sorry to here that had a accident my friend but so happy that you was not really badly hurt. You are a very brave women and being that calm about every is so amazing. That BMW should have been watching what they were doing and not to apologies is so rude. :@ Just glad that everybody did not die and that you guys are ok.
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Yes, the driver should've apologized. I was more than a bit miffed that he did not only not apologize but also said I was the one who hit him.. However, I am glad that it wasn't worse than it is.. Just hope my mom will be better soon..
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OMG Bells!
I just found out and read this post! apa lah saya ni!! Anyways, Alhamdulillah syukur that you and your mom are fine. CURSE that driver for being so idiotic and for not apologizing. Nyawa orang in jeopardy and nak ego and report bukan2!! OMG!
Okay maybe I take back my resolution on getting my driver's license. tu yang i'm scared of tau.. scared of other drivers. I know I can't control it.. but sbb I don't know how I'll react in that situation. i don't think i'm a calm, cool, collected kinda person. mesti gelabah bukan2.
Anyways, thank heavens you're alright. Hope you get your car soon. People like that should not be driving lah. ISH! sakit my hati. It was a lucky day and good day for everyone involved in that accident. It looked and sounded really bad and you all came out with minor injuries.